Saturday, September 30, 2006

Kenaz Jiu Covner - Born September 29th, 2006



6:58AM. 48 cm Length. 3.3 Kg.
Kenaz means "bright" in Hebrew. Or it means reed. It means Hunter in Arabic. "Jiu" is pronounced like "Joe" for Americans. It means '9'. Because he was born on 9/29/06 at the "Nine Dragons 'Kowloon' Hospital".



Mom is doing good. Labor was quick. The hospital staff was very competent. More details on this later. For those of you planning on having babies in Suzhou, email us for more info on the good and that not-as-good.





Kenaz has a shnazz!!! OK. When we get a chance, we will fill in some of the details of how all this has happened. Peace.

Monday, September 25, 2006

Also, Akiva is a growing, strong boy


Saturday, September 23, 2006

Z.z. Z is for Zoo!



We went to the Suzhou Zoo today. OK. So if you are from San Diego – which has one of the best zoos, if not the best zoo in the world – Suzhou Zoo will seem small and rather sad. However, if you are living in Suzhou, it is a beautiful Fall day outside, you have already seen most of the famous gardens in town, you are looking for something new to do, and your son almost knows how to say “bear”, “lion”, and “monkey”, BUT has never seen said creatures … well … it’s a nice outing to go to the zoo.

The zoo is located on the North-East corner of the old city in a park called East Park (Dong Yuan). 10RMB ($1.25) admission to the park. Haga said there was some other sort of garden UNESCO Heritage for Humanity site in the park too, but that had a separate admission and I need a while before I’m going to be interested in going to gardens again. Outside the zoo in Dong Yuan park was standard Chinese garden park stuff: bicycle boats, shops selling lots of toy guns, remote controlled model boats, some stone bridges. This park also has bumper cars and a merry-go-round that did not look like a death-trap.

Most of the animal exhibits in the zoo were way too small, especially the lion and bear cages. Their was a monkey or sort-of orangutan cage that was big, but had no green stuff in side. Chinese people threw food at the animals and jumped up and down and shouted and clapped hands to get response out of them. ( FYI it is not good for animals to feed them this way because it messes up the animals diet and sometimes causes animals to get sick)



Still, Akiva had a good time and so did we. He also pushed his own stroller a long time, and walked from the entrance of the park to the zoo, so he fell asleep after an hour and we went home.

Thursday, September 21, 2006

Count down….


I am 38 weeks. My baby is full-term (between 37 and 42 weeks are considered full-term). He is in a good head-down position. I can feel he started to drop down lower. My due is October 3rd. He is just waiting for the right time to be born.

Am I ready?

I am going to have a baby at Kawloon hospital in Suzhou. I have gone to their delivery room twice. I have got all answers I need from doctors and a head nurse. I have packed for me and baby. I went to hair cut. I have not decided if I want epidural. My doctor said I will have a baby within four hours without epidural. The doctor also said it will kill 40-60% of pain, not too much (because having some pain will give woman pleasure experiment of labor……). I am afraid of pain, but I got feeling because of epidural, my first labor was 12 hours (I was completely numb).

Are Jesse and Akiva ready?

Jesse has been nervous, but I don’t think he is ready. He has not even known the phone number of the hospital and babysitter. I think guys never be ready unless they see a baby. Akiva is a happy little baby. He is the same way as his daddy. He won’t be ready until he becomes a big brother.

Friday, September 15, 2006

Angelina and Brad snatched our baby name

I have been out of Hollywood gossip for a while. I know Angelina Jolie was pregnant of Brad Pitt’s baby, but I did not know she had a baby girl in May.

We have several candidates of baby’s name, Adir Covner, Hiram Covner, Kenaz Covner, and Shiloh Covner. When Jesse consulted with Bruce, his father on chat, he said Shiloh is a very hip name now. We did not know what that means until yesterday when Jesse chatted with Rachael, his sister. She said Angelina and Brad’s baby girl is Shiloh. Shiloh can be boy's and girl's name. Angelina and Brad snatched our baby boy’s name! I told Jesse as of today Shiloh is no longer on our list. Jesse doesn’t care if Hollywood famous couple has the same baby name for girl.

While most the expats go back to their country to have a baby, I am going to have him in Suzhou, China. It is a kind of brave thing. I was told I will be the first Japanese to have a baby in Suzhou. Yet Angelina had the baby in the Cottage Hospital in Swakopmund, the African country of Namibia!! I saw the picture of the hospital (http://people.aol.com/people/article/0,26334,1184497,00.html). It looks like dinky clinic. I bet with her fame and money she might had an own midwife from the US.

I have to say Angelina is brave to snatch Brad from Jennifer and our baby boy’s name, and brave enough to have a baby in Namibia, Africa!

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

Akiva’s Vocabulary


We went to a back to Suzhou BBQ party in Taihu lake by Expat Association Suzou on Sunday.


He can say “ball”, “bus”, “boat”, "moom" and“no” in English
He can say “ear (mimi)”, “battafly (chocho)”, and “Oh, dear! (ah, ah)” in Japanese.
He can say “one, two, three (yi, er, san)” in Chinese.
He understands all three languages comfortably now.

Akiva loves swimming.
We took him an outdoor swimming pool every weekend in this summer.
Summer time is over in Suzhou...

Saturday, September 02, 2006

Unagi Neko


Unagi was our cat. We met him in 1998, when we were living in central San Jose. A little neighborhood girl found him near our house when he was a maybe 6 weeks old. She asked us to take care of him and we did. We quickly grew to love him. Haga picked his name, which means “Eel” in Japanese because the cat’s colorations reminded her of an eel.

We made a decision to let him be an outdoor cat because we felt he would be happier that way. And he was. He climbed trees and killed mice and roamed the neighborhood. Unfortunately he also killed birds and would smear the remains into the house carpet, or bring the bodies into our bedroom. Because he was an outdoor cat, he was pretty strong and quick. He would get sort of fat in the winter and very skinny in the summer. Mostly in the Summertime, he would go on “treks” for several days, not to be seen. But would always return.

He also defended his territory. I have seen him make surprise attacks on dogs that get to close to the house. He once got into a fight with another cat who tried to kill Unagi. He had big claw rakes down his neck. But he survived.

Unagi had a lot of personality. He was not very cuddly, but would like to sleep at the foot of the bed. Only sometimes come to sleep on our laps. Although sometimes he would follow us around the block when we walked to the store. In some ways he was like a dog I guess. He seemed smart for a cat. He understood when I called him, but often would not care.

We gave Unagi to our friend Jeremy when Akiva was born. Before Akiva was born, while we were in China, Lucia took great care of Unagi. But after Akiva came, we decided to sell the house and we thought it would not be right to bring him to China, subjecting him to a possibly long customs detention as well as a life indoors. Jeremy lives on a ranch near Jamul (near San Diego). We were very sad when Jeremy took Akiva away and we cried. But Unagi was very happy on the ranch. Jeremy gave him love and sustenance. Unagi had a large area to roam. He hunted rabbits a lot. He lived as a farm cat.

Jeremy called me yesterday and told me that Unagi has been gone for almost a month and most likely is dead. There was a large pack of Coyotes that went through his “neighborhood” the night Unagi disappeared and many of his neighbors have lost cats and dogs that night. So he was probably killed and possibly eaten by a Coyote.

I am sad about this. I don’t want to think about how he died. We loved Unagi and when I think about him I feel loss now. On the other hand, he had a good run. He was a good cat that lived well with his “owners” and he showed attachment for us. He was healthy, strong, cunning, and always curious. He was cute and playful too. Haga and I will miss him.


So long, Unagi by Haga

Jesse had a phone call from Jeremy his best friend in San Diego. He said Unagi is gone. Unagi might be attacked by coyotes.

Unagi was our first son.

In 1998 summer, when I came out from late morning shower on the weekend, Jesse told me he has some surprise to show me. It was a kitten. Summer, a girl from our neighbour found him on our front yard and wondered if he belongs to us. Jesse knows I love cat. I have a cat in my parent house. Jesse wanted make me feel like where we were my home (that time I had lived in the U.S. for only two years). Jesse told Summer to keep him until we find the owner. I had mixed feeling about having a cat. If we cannot find the owner, we need to adopt him. We traveled a lot. I didn’t know what to do with cat while we were not home.

After three days, we couldn’t find the owner. The kitten was about six weeks old and had already toilet training. He was skinny, black and shinny. We named him eel in Japanese.

Unagi became our part of life. When I saw him on the from yard driving back from work, I felt like I am home. He made a friend from next door. Because of Unagi’s friendship, we also became a friend with the owner.

Unagi kept me a company when I was alone and pregnant. Jesse was working in Shanghai and I came back to the U.S when I was five months pregnant. At the end of my pregnancy, Unagi could not sit on my lap because my belly was sticking out. He laid down on my top of belly and kept my belly warm.

On the day we need to say good bye to Unagi. Jesse and I cried for long time although we knew we made the best decision for him.

In Suzhou, there is no wild animal. When I was in Shanghai I didn’t heard sound of birds. There is no scrawls, no skunks, no racoons of curse no coyotes. I have to believe Unagei had a great life in wild nature in California.